Activity

They/them as singular pronouns

A simple introduction via PowerPoint to show several ways in which we use "they" and "them".

Aim: to show how we use "they" and "them" not just as plural, but also as singular pronouns.

Some ways we can use "they" and "them":
- More than one of a noun
- To refer to someone whom we don't the gender of
- For non-binary people

1) The PowerPoint is a series of pictures of people - sometimes one person, sometimes several. Click through and let the students think if they should use she/her, he/him, or they/them. When you click, you'll reveal the answer.
2) The first few are easy, but some tricky ones are thrown in - a person with a bag over their head, an astronaut in full gear, and a baby. I don't give the answer right away for these ones.
3) After the picture quiz, starting on slide 14, the PowerPoint then explains how we can use "they/them" when we don't know the person's gender.
4) Once that sinks in, I introduce the singer Sam Smith on slide 18, who is non-binary, and explain their pronouns, and then we watch a Sam Smith music video.
5) Students can introduce themselves with the final slide, like this: "Hello. I'm [ ]. My pronouns are [ ].

Files:
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  • 2020 singular they them.pptx (2.44 MB)
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    Submitted by rebvandev November 17, 2020 Estimated time: 20 minutes
    1. UonumaRobert November 18, 2020

      Interesting. I can't say I've been asked to teach this language point in this way but there are a lot of posters for LGBTQ issues and new gender norms up in this schools so its worth using more open ideas. I had actually wondered in your family powerpoint why you used spouse and not partner as a term. I think spouse is mainly a legal term whereas partner can be used in a wider range of domestic situations. Plus its easier to remember.

    2. rebvandev November 20, 2020

      I found out there are quite a few LGBT students at my school after I had them fill out a survey, and one of the questions on it was about this. After knowing that, I proposed this lesson idea to my JTEs and then got the OK from them. As for the family activity, I put "spouse" because wife/husband are also legal terms, but I think you're right. I think next year I'll delete husband/wife/spouse altogether and replace it with something simpler, like brother/sister/sibling.

    3. UonumaRobert November 21, 2020

      That's cool. I think New Crown has the family vocabulary completely from the point of view of the kids. So its just brother/sister/sibling then mother/father and grandparents

    4. rebvandev November 24, 2020

      Ah that's a good point. It's probably easiest for them to think about it from their own perspective. I have some tinkering to do. Thanks for the tips!

    5. UonumaRobert November 24, 2020

      Actually I like the way you've got it. It may be easier but I think kids should know terms like 'wife' or 'husband' or 'partner' so they can talk about the world around them and not just themselves. I find I have to point to my ring ever time I say 'wife' so the students understand it.

    6. ratclass April 21, 2023

      love this so much!!!!! thank you!

    7. letstry June 27, 2023

      Good work! It's good so that the students can use their imagination and make believe.

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